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All You Zombies, by Robert Heinlein, one of the greatest time-travel stories ever written.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:04 AM on November 5, 2011

There's a scene in the original "Producers" where Gene Wilder is talking with Zero Mostel, who is timing Wilder with a stopwatch. I think Wilder's reaction counts as worry or anxiety.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 8:22 PM on November 3, 2011

The best advice I got about dream interpretation was very similar to Elysum's suggestion. Ask questions about the imagery, events, etc, and answer quickly, without thinking too much about the answers. If your friend from 6th grade is in the dream, ask yourself questions like "what's he wearing? Why is he wearing that? What's he doing? How did he get there?". Do it with inanimate objects, too. Of the black staircase covered in blood "What would it say if it could talk?… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:09 PM on October 13, 2011

The Edge, No Country For Old Men, The Right Stuff
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:26 PM on October 2, 2011

A few things:

1) If it's actually a confidential shelter, they won't even acknowledge that she's there, and likely won't even agree to pass on information, packages, etc. You can still try, but be prepared to hear "We don't give out information about who is here, or our address".

2) Don't judge her, even if she does things you disagree with. The shame and isolation associated with DV arise in part because victims do things that… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 12:22 PM on September 29, 2011

And bilabial, congrats on getting out.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 12:23 PM on September 29, 2011

The Vancouver Art Gallery currently has an impressive Surrealism exhibit, that runs until Oct 2nd.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:29 AM on September 6, 2011

I believe, in 2003, this feature is controlled by Tools>Options>Edit>Extend data range formats and formulas. But I can't always get it to work just by toggling that box. Some answers might be here
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:04 AM on August 7, 2011

Costco's pretty good as well.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:17 AM on July 17, 2011

I walk about 1 1/4 miles one way to my appointment, so I have about 15-20 minutes to walk afterwards, and that's when I do most of my post-session processing. Sometimes, I stop for a cookie or coffee at a local bakery (Since SaraC shared, this is where I go)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 5:27 PM on July 14, 2011

There are a bunch of places in Georgetown. I'd suggest starting at Smarty Pants, a pretty nifty bar with some great sandwiches. I've also had some great meals at Muy Macho
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:22 PM on June 19, 2011

It might be a lot of work, but what about making time capsules that your daughter opens on milestone birthdays? Say, 5 years, 10 years, 16 years, 21 years (or whatever number appeals to you). They could include age-appropriate messages, pictures, articles, gifts, etc.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 12:24 PM on June 16, 2011

A few things, in case anyone is still looking/thinking:

1) My department (IT) tried to implement ITIL, but the efforts fizzled out since there was no broader organizational support for it (we aren't a technology shop, and the other demands of the business took precedence). We use a few of the ideas, but no broad structure.

2) My immediate manager had suggested Six Sigma to me, but I think it's a more involved than this organization would support.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:01 PM on June 13, 2011

I just finished the awesome book "The End of Mr Y", by Scarlett Thomas, and it's about a lot (a lot!) of things, including thought and consciousness. It's been mentioned here before.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:51 PM on June 13, 2011

The King County Sexual Assault Resource Center is going to be able to help you with the kind of referral you're asking for. And I don't know if the therapist you saw specialized in abuse, but KCSARC can likely assist you in finding someone that will be able to give you concrete suggestions.

There are national hotlines as well (1-800-656-HOPE, for example) that might be able to make referrals, but KCSARC is local, and will know local resources.

Good luck!
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:57 PM on June 7, 2011

It looks to me as if there is a pretty heavy training component to this job, so think about preparing for that aspect of it too. How you'd set up curricula/outlines, delivery across offices, etc. Talking about standardization across offices is also not a bad idea, although good luck with actually implementing standards in a law firm ;-)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 8:49 AM on May 30, 2011

I too am generally of the "people first" camp. However, while not exactly what you're looking for, there are a number of resources that suggest that cruelty to animals (pets specifically) is linked to Domestic Violence.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 5:56 AM on May 26, 2011

"...and wonder if my therapist will believe since I didn't mention it for the past 6 months of seeing him"

If you tell him, and he doesn't believe you, you need to find another therapist.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 7:37 PM on May 21, 2011

I saw a karaoke brand-newbie do "I wanna Be Sedated". He got so into it and worked up while on stage he took off his jacket, spun it around in the air and threw it across the room. Simple lyrics, melody, but energetic. And it looked like he had great fun.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:53 AM on May 1, 2011

Red Alert did have a lunch pail as a significant plot point in it, and if memory serves the bomber was someone who was sick from radiation.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 8:57 PM on April 24, 2011 marked best answer

Yeah, Spike, that's the climax of the film.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:27 PM on April 24, 2011

Moon
Falling Down
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:02 AM on April 24, 2011

I hadn't gone to a dentist in over 20 years, and my wife made me go see someone at Meydenbauer Dental (Dr. Lu). Apart from one or two amazed comments, no one said a single thing about the length of time since my last dentist appointment (which was in another city). They were kind, thorough, communicative and gentile, and very concerned with making sure my experience was good.

Now, my wife told them ahead of time that it had been a while, but they were great.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 11:47 AM on April 22, 2011

The National Center for Victims of Crime maintains the Stalking Resource Center. Some of it is geared towards organizations, but a lot of it is for individuals.

Perhaps a referral, if your friend has access to the Internet.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:32 AM on April 17, 2011

I did it through trial and error. I worked with environmentalism, child abuse, HIV+ folks, sexual abuse victims. I tried being a campus activist, did a teeny tiny bit of politicking, and then after casting about for 15+ years found the world of domestic violence advocacy, which is where I focus my time these days (well, my free time when not earning a paycheck). And I know that it "actually makes [my] presence on earth worth it for other human beings", because I've gotten that… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:59 PM on April 14, 2011 marked best answer

They are very corny, but I always liked the elephant jokes that kind of cluster together. Here's a variant:

http://homepage.tinet.ie/~cronews/elep/elep.html
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 4:54 PM on April 1, 2011 marked best answer

I think if you don't like Lewis Black or Patton Oswalt, you probably won't like Louis C.K. I think all three are very smart, but they have a similar style (negative, angry, etc)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:07 AM on March 31, 2011

Topdog/Underdog by Suzan-Lori Parks (on the Pulitzer list)

Copenhagen, by Michael Frayn, has interesting staging when performed, but is also a good read. And there's a movie.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:02 AM on March 26, 2011

The end of Star Trek II.

The end of Donnie Darko.

The end of Vincent and the Doctor
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 8:30 AM on March 25, 2011

One thing about homemade sushi...unless you're making it for a large party, be careful of how much you buy. A little fish goes a loooooooooooong way, so you likely won't get the variety you have if you go out to eat.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 12:32 PM on February 22, 2011

Ender's Game and its sequel, Speaker for the Dead.

I can't vouch for whether the books will meet your criteria or not, but when I re-entered the world of Science Fiction, I used the Hugo and Nebula awards lists.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:00 AM on February 21, 2011

I didn't complete my degree for a wide variety of reasons. The biggest thing I should have done differently was take some time off between undergrad and grad school (or, I suppose, before entering undergrad). That perspective would have been extremely valuable.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 5:51 AM on February 21, 2011

After Fremont go back up to Ballard, come back south over the Ballard bridge, then go to Discovery Park and around Magnolia (along Magnolia blvd). There are a bunch of nice places to stop there that overlook the bay. Then after Magnolia, go up and over Queen Anne. Stop at El Diablo and get a Cubano to gear you up for the rest of the night...

If it was a little bit later, you might have fun driving up 1st avenue through Belltown and Pioneer Square and watching the bar… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 7:04 PM on February 8, 2011

In My Time Of Dying, as recorded by Led Zeppelin
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:14 PM on January 22, 2011

Ducky's doesn't appear to stock Steelcase, but they have others. Dunno how many ergo chairs they have, but it's a pretty big showroom (and they also have used)
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 1:58 PM on January 22, 2011

I'd suggest coming up with humorous (adult?) sentences to use if someone needs a word in context.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:15 PM on January 7, 2011

Not a parent, but a former teacher. A few things to look for/ask:

1) How many of the teachers have Montessori certificates? That is, how many were formally trained themselves in Montessori?

2) Look at the equipment in the classroom, and make sure it's clean/organized/complete. A fully-stocked classroom can be very expensive, but you want to make sure the basic materials are there. You can find online catalogs that have lists, here's one.… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 11:49 AM on January 7, 2011

Since it's been several months, I'm wondering how things are going. How has your experience been so far? Has it met your expectations?
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:18 PM on December 26, 2010

For me, it's hard to suss out stuff I like vs. stuff that's written well. Here are a few:

Michael Chabon and Jonathan Lethem are both excellent authors that build fascinating worlds and write masterfully. Every few pages in Yiddish Policeman's Union I'd stop and pause to catch my breath and savor a paragraph or two. Same with Gun, With Occasional Music

And Delany's one of my favorite authors, but I'd suggest Stars In My Pocket Like Grains of Sand.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:16 AM on December 24, 2010

Ella Minnow Pea. Also the benefit of some really cool linguistic gyrations that get progressively more intense as the story goes on.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 5:08 PM on December 19, 2010

In Superman (the movie), he runs time backwards for a while to bring Lois Lane back to life.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 6:17 AM on December 1, 2010

"I'm terrified I'm going to be in therapy five years later, with nothing to show."

Depending on who you are, where you are, what you're dealing with, therapy isn't just plugging some variables into a formula and pressing a button. It can be long, hard work.

Over the last two years in therapy, I have gained a much deeper understanding of myself, my motivations and the forces that affect my life then I ever had before. In fact, I think… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 8:38 PM on November 29, 2010

"But I feel ashamed for my outburst. And I feel even more hopeless in my depression, as calling the Hotline really reinforced the fact that a stranger can't save me from the garbage inside my head."

I can't help you find a therapist, that's something you'll just need to keep at. But the thoughts you express above are symptoms of what you're going through, and if you can find a way to realize it, it'll help you understand. Think about it this way. If you were… [more]
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:44 AM on November 6, 2010

One more thing. My depression lasted a long time, as did my suicidal ideation. I got out of it slowly, with the help of therapy, medicine and changing my life (finding a job I didn't hate, exercising, etc). And I'll say now that while I still have depressive tendencies, I haven't thought about suicide in a long time.

What worked for me may not work for you. But the fact that your feelings persist aren't an indication that you are doomed.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:50 AM on November 6, 2010

Iron Man - The Cardigans
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:26 PM on November 3, 2010

nthing corded Wahl. I've had it 15 years, used every 4-6 weeks, and it's in great shape.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 12:23 PM on November 3, 2010

That's perfect, nadawi! I support the department in a few other ways as well, but I wanted to put up a new sign, and "We Back the Blue" is exactly what I was looking for.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 8:37 PM on October 29, 2010

This might do it. Put it in Excel. Number the rows. Sort with two factors, the first is your column with the labels, the second is row number. Your data will now be listed with all of the Name1 values in order, and your Name2 values will be in the same order (so if you line up the data, name1 and name2 should match).

You can copy and paste those sorted values into distinct columns in the order you want.
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 9:33 PM on October 19, 2010

Sewer, Gas and Electric by Matt Ruff (this might have some

Shelter, by Susan Palwick
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 10:25 PM on October 10, 2010

2nding Micawber (all of it). Adding that you need to continue to support her, even if she makes choices you don't agree with. Unconditional support is the only way she'll continue to have a lifeline should she get back with him.

The Stalking Resource Center is a great place to start.

Also, "manipulative and controlling" is domestic violence, and you might look at resources along those lines, for both your sister (if she's interested) and you (for what you're dealing with).
posted to Ask MetaFilter by Gorgik at 11:49 AM on October 3, 2010